Day 22. What fictional character in a movie, TV show, or book do you identify with and why?

Just so you know, I’m not planning to give up on this challenge so….

I’m back!

And because I’m  so excited to share my favorite fictional characters, let’s skip that long introduction and let’s get straight down to business.

I have several characters in mind when it comes to fictional characters that I can identify with. But because I want to make this post short and sweet, I’ll just mention my two most favorite characters. The first one is Stargirl Caraway from the book, Stargirl; and the second one is Anne Shirley of the Anne of Green Gables series.

Stargirl Caraway


She laughed when there was no joke. She danced when there was no music.She had no friends, yet she was the friendliest person in school. In her answers in class, she often spoke of sea horses and stars, but she did not know what a football was…

She was elusive. She was today. She was tomorrow. She was the faintest scent of a cactus flower, the flitting shadow of an elf owl. We did not know what to make of her. In our minds we tried to pin her to a corkboard like a butterfly, but the pin merely went through and away she flew.


I read the book a few years ago and I fell in love with Stargirl’s character right away.  As I’ve said in my book review, I like Stargirl because she’s weird, innocent and carefree.  I can easily relate with her because sometimes, I feel like I’m also living in my own world, and  I don’t care if people will find me weird. Just like her, I also try to act nonchalant but deep inside, I care a lot. She’s misunderstood by most people because she does not conform to the poplular opinion of  the around her.

Anne Shirley


Matthew was not looking at her and would not have seen what she was really like if he had been, but an ordinary observer would have seen this: A child of about eleven, garbed in a very short, very tight, very ugly dress of yellowish-gray wincey. She wore a faded brown sailor hat and beneath the hat, extending down her back, were two braids of very thick, decidedly red hair. Her face was small, white and thin, also much freckled; her mouth was large and so were her eyes, which looked green in some lights and moods and gray in others.

So far, the ordinary observer; an extraordinary observer might have seen that the chin was very pointed and pronounced; that the big eyes were full of spirit and vivacity; that the mouth was sweet-lipped and expressive; that the forehead was broad and full; in short, our discerning extraordinary observer might have concluded that no commonplace soul inhabited the body of this stray woman-child of whom shy Matthew Cuthbert was so ludicrously afraid.


The first time I met Anne Shirley through this description and her conversation with Matthew, I thought she’s amusing and a very talk4ative girl. As the story progress, I found out that she’s indeed amusing and there’s more to her than meets the eye. She’s also a kindred spirit who loves big words, ambitious, and is full of imagination. As you get to know her throughout the story, you’ll discover that she’s one of the fictional character with the most beautiful soul. Despite her sad family background and childhood, she still have this positive outlook in life and can even add life and joy to the people around her. Because of her beautiful character, her life also ended up very well in the end.

I said I can relate with Anne Shirley because I wanted to be like her. I also want to add joy to the people around me and bring positive influence to them.

That’s all for now. 😀

Day 21. How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?

 

I’m not sure if I get this question right so I’ll just try to answer this question from the top of my mind.

There’s this reality show that I used to watch back in my childhood days. It’s called Extra Challenge, a local TV program in our country, and was hosted by news anchor Paolo Bediones and former Ms. Universe Runner-Up Miriam Quiambao. The show was a reality competition that features local celebrities who were tasked to complete a certain extreme challenge such as jumping on the river from a bridge, eating exotic food like roasted beetles, among others. I used to love that show because I find it amusing to see the different reactions of the participants before and after completing a cerain task.

If I were to pitch a reality show about myself, I think I would choose something similar to this debunked TV program. I want to try doing things that I would never dare to do so this program is a good venue for that. As to what network, I would choose the local network with least number of viewers so that only few people will watch it. ?

​Day 19. What is something about you that people would be surprised to learn

I actually don’t know what to share for this post. But thanks to the  interesting lunch conversation I had with my office yesterday, I now have an idea what to write.

Lunch time with officemates is one the things I look forward to everyday, lately. I praise God that He restored my relationships with the people in the office that I am now enjoying the time I spent with them. So yesterday, we were having our usual meal time chat and out of the blue, we ended up talking about love life and dating apps like Tinder. And then another officemate shared about her experience in using Tinder, which also made me confess that I also tried installing and  exploring the app before. I told them that I installed the app out of curiosity and also because my friends and I were talking about. After a few swipes to the right and a number of swipes to the left, I concluded that Tinder will never work for me. Because one, I am judgmental and all that when it comes to display pictures; and two, I’m not interested in starting a random chat with a stranger. So in the end, I deleted my account and uninstalled the app in my phone.

When I shared this incident to my officemates, one of them was surprised that I have tried Tinder. Knowing my preference and standards, they have never suspected me that I will install Tinder in my phone.

Anyway, so at the end of our lunchbreak, we ended up installing Tinder in our phones for some demo. After a  few swipes, I decided to uninstall the app again because I really find it scary talking to random strangers.

Day 16. If you planted a time capsule right now of your life to be opened in 20 years, what would be in it?

Challenge time!

Since I’ve just completed my blogging challenge with Lynai (at last!), I thought it’s time for me to go back to my TSW blogging challenge.  I am itching to finish it soon so I can move on to other writing  stuff for my blog.

The next question in my challenge is all about time capsule. Although I can say I’m a pack rat and very sentimental for my personal possessions, I never thought of planting a time capsule. The closest thing to time capsule planting that I’ve ever done was keeping a collection of novelty items and other fancy stuff several boxes (yes, several!) that have accumulated over the years. These boxes are now placed under my bed, collecting dusts and waiting for me to unpack them once again.

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Photo courtesy of timecapsuleuk.com

Anyway, going back to the topic, if I were to plant a time capsule in this time of my life right now,  I’ll put there my old college journal with the latest entry dated the time I’ve planted the time capsule. In my latest entry, I’ll write there the reason and purpose of planting that time capsule.

Along with my journal, I’ll put some of my used brush pens to remind me 20 years later that I was once into calligraphy.

Maybe that’s it. Nothing symbolic or whatever because I don’t want to keep away something important for a very long time.

Day 15: Narrate a conversation between you and someone in your life who you never had closure with (a friend, an ex, a family member, etc.) What would you say? What would they say? What outcome would you hope for?

Okay, Cary. Let’s do this! Time to make up some story.

But first….

BREATHE IN.

BREATHE OUT.

Meaningful conservation doesn’t need to happen  face-to-face, right? So I’m petending that this happened through SMS (or not so short messages) exchanges.  I was waiting for the next train to arrive when I received that unexpected text from this friend. Let’s call this friend, Snoopy. 

Snoopy:Hi, Cary!
Cary:Oh, hi Snoopy. What a surprise!
Snoopy: Yeah, right. Just came out from my cave, you know. 
Cary: I see., 
Cary: So…how are you? Really, how are you?
Snoopy: I’m fine, Cary. Don’t worry about me. A lot of things happened for the past n years, both good and bad, but overall, life is good and thank God I’m still here. I hope you’re okay, too.
Cary: Glad to hear you’re doing good. Yes, I’m doing great.
Cary: Oh, I need to go. Can’t text much this time. I’m on my way home. Bye!

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Yeah, that’s it. I’ve been thinking hard how should I write this conversation and what are the words I would say, but in vain I have struggled. And then I realize that maybe, the reason why I can’t think of anything to say is because I’m no longer interested in that “closure” thing. Call it acceptance or perhaps moving on but whatever you call it, for me, that season of  my life when I’m still friends with Snoopy was over. I’m on the new chapter of my life now and Snoopy’s role in my life is supposed to have ended in the previous chapter so as much as I want Snoopy to reappear now, we can no longer be the same kind of friends as before. I don’t know but I think I’m a different person now and my preferences have also changed so I’m not sure if I still want to rekindle that old friendship. So when this unexpected scenario/conversation happens in real life, I don’t think we can go beyond that text exchanges. 😀😉

Day 15: Narrate a conversation between you and someone in your life who you never had closure with (a friend, an ex, a family member, etc.)

Okay, Cary. Let’s do this! Time to make up some story.
But first….
BREATHE IN.
BREATHE OUT.

Meaningful conservation doesn’t need to happen  face-to-face, right? So I’m pretending that this happened through SMS (or not so short messages) exchanges.  I was waiting for the next train to arrive when I received that unexpected text from this friend. Let’s call this friend, Snoopy.

Snoopy: Hi, Cary!
Cary: Oh, hi Snoopy. What a surprise!
Snoopy: Yeah, right. Just came out from my cave, you know.
Cary: I see.,
Cary: So…how are you? Really, how are you?
Snoopy: I’m fine, Cary. Don’t worry about me. A lot of things happened for the past n years, both good and bad, but overall, life is good and thank God I’m still here. I hope you’re okay, too.
Cary: Glad to hear you’re doing good. Yes, I’m doing great.
Cary: Oh, I need to go. Can’t text much this time. I’m on my way home. Bye!

Yeah, that’s it. I’ve been thinking hard how should I write this conversation and what are the words I would say, but in vain I have struggled. And then I realize that maybe, the reason why I can’t think of anything to say is because I’m no longer interested in that “closure” thing. Call it acceptance or perhaps moving on but whatever you call it, for me, that season of  my life when I’m still friends with Snoopy was over. I’m on the new chapter of my life now and Snoopy’s role in my life is supposed to have ended in the previous chapter so as much as I want Snoopy to reappear now, we can no longer be the same kind of friends as before. I don’t know but I think I’m a different person now and my preferences have also changed so I’m not sure if I still want to rekindle that old friendship. So when this unexpected scenario/conversation happens in real life, I don’t think we can go beyond that text exchanges. ??

Day 14. Describe the last moment you felt really, truly blissful

The truth is,  I’m always kind of in a state of bliss lately so I can’t tell exactly when was the last moment I feel most truly blissful.

So for the purpose of this challenge, I’ll just share what made me feel blissful this week. 

Aaaaand tada!! This photo made me blissful this week:

I know this is kind of vain but I had some free time last weekend that I finally managed to try curling my hair the proper way – and this was the result. Besides, I really had fun curling my hair and I was really happy to see the result of my effort. 

Indeed, our former voice coach was right. When you look good, you feel good. ☺😀😂

Day 12: Your Proudest Accomplishment

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It took me some time to follow through this blogging challenge. I’ve actually drafted several versions of this post but wasn’t able to publish it succesfully because until now, I’m not sure of what my proudest accomplishment is. Sure I have several things in mind,  but those things I’ve achieved happened ages ago so I thought I should write about something that’s recent. The sad thing about it though is that I can’t think of anything I’ve accomplished recently that I can be proud of. Sad right?!

So for the sake of finishing this challenge, I’ll just share my favorite acomplishment in college. If you’ve been following this blog for a while now, you’ll remember that I’ve said something about getting a grade of 1.00 back in college. Actually, that’s the only perfect grade I’ve got in my entire college life. The subject was FPPS 127 (Forest Product Utilization), one of my major subject in Forestry. I challenged myself to get a grade of 1.00 in that subject because my specialization was forest products. When I look back how I was able to get my target grade at the end of the sem, I remember doing these things:

I devoted my time and effort to it. I remember spending extra time reviewing my lessons and memorizing the concepts so especially during exams so I can get a perfect score.

I aimed for excellence. Even if I don’t admit it, I was so competitive back in college. I’ve always wanted to be on top of the class so I always make it my goal to get a high score, if not perfect score, during exams. With that motivation, I worked hard to achieve my goal and get the grade I wanted.

I’ve worked with the right kind of people. During the last part of the sem, our class was asked to form a group and work on a project we were asked to do. I’ve competely forgotten what the project was all about but I remember that I’ve partnered with a close friend of mine from that subject and we ended up making a miniature model of a paper mill. That friend of mine was more artistic and creative than me so the paper mill idea came from her. So we worked together and did our best to finish the project on time. The paper mill model turned out to be a good so we got a grade of 1.00 on that project. Because a large percentage of my final grade came from that project, I was able to get my target grade of 1.00 at the end of the sem, and I’m thankful that I worked with my friend for that particular project.

Looking back, getting what I’ve wanted was really easy for me once I’ve set my mind on it. Sometimes I wonder where that part of me have gone now? Maybe it’s really high time for me to set goals again and really go for it.

Day 9. Your favorite “weird/funny single behavior”

Hi there! It’s been a while since I last made a single woman blog post so it’s time to resume this challenge.

I don’t think that I have a weird/funny single behaviour that is uniquely me but if there’s one thing that I love doing as a single person, it’s my liberty to do interesting activities whenever I want to. I love trying new things and meeting new people so whenever I feel like doing something new, it’s easy for me to go for it without even asking the opinion or permission of others.
I also enjoy doing random things alone so one of my favorite random ‘me-time’ activities is watching movie in a cinema alone. There was actually a time when I went to a mall for a stroll to unwind but I ended up watching a local rom-com movie.

Yeah, that’s it.

Day 6: Sound off on the quote “Every woman has the exact love life she wants”

image “Every woman has the exact love life she wants”

This phrase reminds me of the conversation I had with my friend 2 years ago, when she asked me about what the Bible says about getting married. She asked me if it’s true that each person really has this ‘someone’ God has created just for him/her. It just so happened that we were just finished meditating on the Matthew as the main text for our Day in Prayer and Fasting (DIPF) so I just shared with her my insights and the things I learned from my meditation. Our main text was found in Matthew 19:1-12:

When Jesus had finished saying these things, he left Galilee and went into the region of Judea to the other side of the Jordan. Large crowds followed him, and he healed them there. Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?” Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”

I don’t know about you, but based from what I learned from this text, it’s not true that every woman has the exact love life she wants. As what Jesus said, there are really people who are meant to be eunuchs. So what I said to my friend is that marriage is not the only and ultimate purpose of life. God’s purpose for creating us is to have an intimate, loving relationship with Him that will last for eternity. Marriage is just a means to that end. So it is really possible for some people to remain single forever because God has willed it, and because He has other purpose in mind. So even if we have this perfect love story in mind, if God does not will it, it will not happen. But we are assured that whatever it is that God has in mind, it is for our own good. His ways and thoughts are higher than ours so we can rest in the truth that His will for us is PLEASING and PERFECT.