Day 21. How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?

 

I’m not sure if I get this question right so I’ll just try to answer this question from the top of my mind.

There’s this reality show that I used to watch back in my childhood days. It’s called Extra Challenge, a local TV program in our country, and was hosted by news anchor Paolo Bediones and former Ms. Universe Runner-Up Miriam Quiambao. The show was a reality competition that features local celebrities who were tasked to complete a certain extreme challenge such as jumping on the river from a bridge, eating exotic food like roasted beetles, among others. I used to love that show because I find it amusing to see the different reactions of the participants before and after completing a cerain task.

If I were to pitch a reality show about myself, I think I would choose something similar to this debunked TV program. I want to try doing things that I would never dare to do so this program is a good venue for that. As to what network, I would choose the local network with least number of viewers so that only few people will watch it. ?

Week 1: A song from Your Childhood

Welcome to our first week of the challenge!

I got pressured by Lynai’s Week 1 post so here’s mine (haha!). I don’t know why but I remember this is one of my favorite songs back in my elementary days. My older relative introduced it to me and taught me the lyrics and I’ve never forgotten this song up until now.

Yesterday’s Dream

We are the children of yesterday’s dream
We are the promise of the future we bring
Waving the banners of love to all
To every nation, the rich and the poor

Refrain:

We are the world of the restless and young
And we need a hand to guide us
Helping each other
Build each other
As long as we’re together you and me

Chorus:
For together we stand, divided we fall
Together we climb to the top of the world
We can be what we what for the world to see
That we are the children of yesterday’s dream

We have the yearning to do what is best
Be someone special from all the rest
Nation and brothers in unity
Building tomorrow for you and for me

Why I No Longer Consider Myself a Hardcore Environmentalist

Okay, before you make any violent reaction, let me tell you first that I still do believe that we should take care of the environment. First, because it is a God-given mandate to all human beings to be stewards of God’s creation. And second, because the state of our environment can really affect the state of our well-being.

Last Friday, I attended a meeting and was glad to see my former officemate there. We used to work together in an environmental NGO and we’re still both working in the field of environmental conservation and sustainable development. After our usual ‘catching up’ conversation, our topic went back to work-related stuff. Then we suddenly shifted to talking about our future plans and my friend expressed his frustrations and disappointments about development work and the quality of life here in Manila. He confessed that what he really wants is just to stay in the province and live a simple and stress-free life. He also shared that sometimes, he can’t help but wonder what’s the point of doing all these environment-related work when we know that God will destroy this planet in the end? This friend of mine is also a Christian so I said I agree with him and share the same sentiment. I told him that sometimes, I also ask God if what we are doing are really worth the effort since this world is not really meant to stay forever.

My friend further shared that out of frustration, he even asks God when will the rapture be, just so because we all wanted these frustrating things in the world to end. The meeting was about to start so we ended our conversation there.

Our discussion was actually short but for me, it was meaningful and comforting because it was really nice to know that there are still people out there who share my views about environment and development work. As a Christian who is working in the development sector, it is really a struggle for me to stay passionate about my work because I know that no matter what I do, my output will never have a lasting value. Yes, it can contribute in making the lives of the people comfortable for a while, but later on, seemingly new problems and issues will arise. I said seemingly new because, the emerging issues are not actually new as the root of most problems is the same ~~ SIN. As what the teacher in Ecclesiastes says,

What has been will be again,
what has been done will be done again;
there is nothing new under the sun.
Is there anything of which one can say,
“Look! This is something new”?
It was here already, long ago;
it was here before our time.
(Ecclesiastes 1:9‭-‬10 NIV)

“Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher.
“Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”
(Ecclesiastes 1:2 NIV)

Unless we address the cause of the problem of this world, everything will be meaningless.

The good news is, God has already addressed the problem of SIN by sending His Son, Jesus. And with Jesus’ death on the cross and resurrection, we can now overcome the world by His power, if we will also allow Him to rule our life. So as Christians, we can always escape the corruption of this world by holding on to God’s promises.

Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. (2 Peter 1:4 NIV)

Just to make sure that I get the point, God gave me this Word the following day:

The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it;(Psalm 24:1 NIV)

The commentary in the Bible I am using for my quiet time said that because “the earth is the Lord’s”, we are all stewards or caretakers. We should be committed to the proper management of this world and its resources. However, we are not to become devoted to anything created or act as sole proprietor because this world will pass away.

In conclusion, the environment and its resources were given to us by God for our own use and enjoyment. As stewards, we are expected to use these resources wisely. However, we should not also hold on to these resources too tightly, as if it is more important than humanity itself, because God will someday make this world disappear. My earthly work is important, but winning souls is far more important and more fulfilling because it has eternal value.

{Book Review}: Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine (Gail Honeyman)

Title: Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine
Author: Gail Honeyman
Date Read: August 3-19, 2017
Rating: ★★★★

SUMMARY:


Meet Eleanor Oliphant: She struggles with appropriate social skills and tends to say exactly what she’s thinking. Nothing is missing in her carefully timetabled life of avoiding social interactions, where weekends are punctuated by frozen pizza, vodka, and phone chats with Mummy.

Then everything changes when Eleanor meets Raymond, the bumbling and deeply unhygienic IT guy from her office. When she and Raymond together save Sammy, an elderly gentleman who has fallen on the sidewalk, the three become the kinds of friends who rescue one another from the lives of isolation they have each been living–and it is Raymond’s big heart that will ultimately help Eleanor find the way to repair her own profoundly damaged one.


MY THOUGHTS:

I have always enjoyed reading, but I’ve never been sure how to select appropriate material. There are so many books in the world—how do you tell them all apart? How do you know which one will match your tastes and interests? That’s why I just pick the first book I see. There’s no point in trying to choose. The covers are of very little help, because they always say only good things, and I’ve found out to my cost that they’re rarely accurate.

These words of Eleanor Oliphant pretty sum up how I came across to this book. For the past few months, I’ve been disappointed with myself for not reading enough as I have promised earlier this year (simply because too much Kdrama, haha!). And then 2 weeks ago, this book popped up in my recommended reading list in Goodreads and the summary piqued my interest. I’ve always been a fan of stories with introverted and eccentric characters and I have a feeling that Eleanor Oliphant is one of them. So I decided to try this one. True enough, Eleanor is truly an interesting and relatable character.

At first I thought this is a funny book, but as I follow Eleanor’s routine as described in the story, I realized that her life is far from funny. While I understand why she thinks that she is completely fine from her perspective, I can’t also help but feel sad for her for having that kind of lifestyle. I know very well how does it feel living alone, and it’s true that it can get lonely sometimes even if I don’t admit it. Though unlike Eleanor, I have life outside my work and my home, and I have a lot of friends and people to whom I can talk to, so being lonely is not a perpetual thing for me. That is why I can only imagine how hard it is for Eleanor to bear all that emotions she had been bottling up for years.

Overall, I really liked reading this book because it has provided a balanced combination of wit, humor and drama. I also liked how the author pulled the story together in such a way that I did not get disappointed in the end. After all, I’m still a fan of redemptive ending. As what Eleanor has said, “In the end, what matters is this: I survived.”

P.S. Special thanks to Lynai for agreeing to buddy-read this book with me. Indeed, reading is more fun when you’re doing it with someone else. ?

I’m Keeping You at Arm’s Length

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I’m keeping you at arm’s length
Because it’s the right thing to do,
Because I believe it’s not yet the appointed time.
I’m not even sure if I’m making the right judgment.
I’m keeping you at arm’s length
Because I don’t want things to get messy.
Closer means risky and risk unguarded can lead to disaster.
I’m keeping you at arm’s length
Because I’m busy,
I’m busy trying to get my life together
And keep it from falling apart.
I’m keeping you at arm’s length
Because I’m not bold enough
And I don’t want to get vulnerable.
I’m afraid that by holding you close,
I might end up pushing you away.
I’m keeping you at arm’s length
Because that’s the only way I can keep you.