Day 20. Describe your most difficult breakup and what you learned from it

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As someone who’s NBSB (no boyfriend since birth), I don’t think I can say much about this topic. But for the sake of finishing this challenge (my gosh Cary, it’s so long overdue!!), let me try again.

As earlier said, break up is a foreign experience to me. I think the closest thing to break up that I’ve experienced was when I learned that ex-office crush and I will no longer be officemates. I was depressed for about a week because of that. Would that count as difficult breakup?! ???

Kidding aside, if there’s one thing that I’m thankful for God, it is the blessing of keeping me from the painful experience of romantic breakups. He is so faithful in honoring my prayer to keep and guard my heart until I’m ready for a lifetime commitment. I know that heartaches and painful experiences can teach us some very import lessons so I really admire those people who are not afraid to try and fall in love over and over again even if they can end up hurting in the end. But I also believe that sometimes, we don’t need to learn some important lessons through ¬†first-hand experience. We can learn from the success and even mistakes of others. So I never considered entering into a romantic relationship just for the sake of experience.

Okay, next question please…

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